There is a normal saying: …behind every successful man; there is always “good” woman.. Good in quotes. It is good to have a good partner because it makes life good for you. Sometimes it makes you think… “it’s the major reason you came to this earth”.
However, you might have spotted a girl which you think perfect to spend the rest of your life with, either she proves STUBBORN or NOT, here are 10 tips to surely win her heart and make her your property!
1. Give Her Follow-Ups
Try to give her follow-ups wherever you spot her, but DON’T act with pressure. In other words, don’t be too curious. Always give her chances to talk. Best way to start your first conversation: “Hello, I wish to introduce myself…”
2. Be an Admiring Type
Tell her words that make her feel important, because she’s important to you, you need to let her know she is having some values that others do not value.
Tell her funny things and add this: “I love it when you smile” immediately after she does that. Girls love it when you praise them.
3. Show Her You Are a Gentle Man
Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be in control. Open every door for her, especially the car door. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date also let her order first. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. Try to be selfless.
4. Be creative
You don’t have to break your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box. Give her what recalls your memory. A lady will appreciated a piece of J Cole’s track you send to her phone rather than buying her a bunch of ice cream from Shoprite.
5. Mean the Business
Girls don’t agree you love them unless you mean the business. I call Ada every day when I finally got her number. I send her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. I told her I wanted to be her man on the fifth day. She wasn’t ready, but she knew what I wanted. I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. She told me she loved that.
6. Speak good of her in front of other people
Like I mentioned earlier, girls love it when you praise them, especially when they hear it from other people that a closer to you. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.
7. Be attentive
Show her that you care for her. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, if you know your she is a vegetarian, take her to a vegetarian restaurant and listen to what she has to say.
8. Be protective
Don’t let her walk alone. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.
9. Be a good observer
Ask “what”, “how” and “why” questions. They help you understand a lady better. If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.
10. Be Realistic
Ok; Finally, be yourself. She would be so disappointed fallen for a false person, and why would you want that anyway? So play real games with her, you are encouraging a to be real also.